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| Ros and her daughter Calley in Perth. |
Ros Bryan lives in Australia. She has had her ups and downs with ITP but support from her ITP friends and her family has kept her strong through it all. Here is her story.
Hi
everyone, you are about to get a warts and all story from me, in fact, honestly
I don’t even know if now is a good time to write it. For all of you that have ITP, or know someone
with it, you will know it can be a default line in your life. Right now for
some reason, probably because it’s coming up to the one year anniversary, of
the most dreadful time of my life, I’m going through a really big downer. This
is where living in Australia, is not ideal, lol, because right now I’d kill for
a hug from one of my ITP friends.
My
story began maybe late Oct, early Nov 2011, I noticed I had a rash on my stomach. Being the laid back person I am, I didn't really care. I figured it
may be washing powder, fleas from our animal’s, heat rash, there was a million
things I put it down to. I did promise myself next time I went to the doctor I
would ask. Meanwhile I was also spitting up and blowing blood from my nose,
lol, still it didn't bother me. A couple
of weeks later when I did see the Doc, he immediately gave me a referral to a
lung specialist, thinking maybe I had lung cancer. I forgot about a rash, until I was on the way
out, so I then ran back in to show him, he put it down to viral. So I was none
the wiser, lung cancer did concern me, but not overly.
A
couple of days later, the rash appeared on the back of my hands, this did freak
me out. I decided to go to Mum’s doc, to get a second opinion. He immediately
sent me for a blood test. This all happened on a Friday, since I had not seen
him for goodness knows how long, he didn't have my contact details. Being a Friday night about 7 pm we were just
about to walk out the door to my daughter’s netball. I had a phone call from my
Mum, the doc had contacted her, because he couldn't get me, to tell me to get
to hospital immediately, I only had 2000 platelets. I remember telling her sure, I’ll go after
netball, that’s when mum had to relay the message if I didn't get there
immediately I may die, oh yeah, and don’t fall over or bump your head on the
way!!
I think my legs gave out from under me, and my head certainly spun, as I
was hysterically crying so much I couldn't see. My son took my daughter to
netball, and myself, my hubby, and Mum went to hospital. I knew it must've been bad, no doc, ever
rings at 7 pm over here. A little detail
I do remember is the nurse shoving, and I mean shoving a canula in, while
coughing all over me, I was a bit calmer by then, but besides babies, I had never been in hospital
before, and I was certainly not staying there this time!! LOL, or so I thought. After me giving them a lecture about how I was going home, so hurry up and fix
me, the Doc, had to tell me if I walked out that door now I would die (one of
my greatest fears), so rest assured I wasn't going anywhere, Mum was with me,
trying to small talk, gee, I was horrid, telling her to shut up etc. I was in
over night before meeting a Hemo the next day, who told me I needed a
transfusion because I had ITP. After asking questions, I still had no idea what
it was. That day over 6 hours I had a hemoglobin transfusion, (I think, see I
still don’t know)!!! My platelets came up very slowly and I was released about
5 days later, with 2700 platelets, and a 2 page brochure, about the blood
disorder. One page, was actually pictures, that’s how well informed I was!!! I
was a nightmare for my hubby, poor thing.
I
had to go back for an outpatient 2 weeks later. I was on 130 mg of steroids so
my platelets had gone up. I also not wanting to whinge mentioned to my doc that
my arm I had the transfusion in was
still really sore, probably nothing, and I wasn't worried. She insisted on getting
it checked, but forgot to give me a form for an ultrasound. Meh, I didn't care,
I was sure it was nothing, but she posted one out, and told me to go. For that
I went to a different closer hospital. Of course I had a blood clot in my arm,
superficial, so it should be okay but it seemed every time I went to hospital I
was taken into an emergency room and given more bad news, and was booked in too
see a doctor there. That’s where the memory of the Nurse came back to me. I
reported that to the doctor, I have never seen one so angry. Well I didn't make it
because the blood clot had moved to my lungs. A PE man, I couldn't catch a
break.
You know when you go to a public hosp and report in, and they chuck you
on a bed and rip off your clothing, that something is really wrong!! So I had
to stay in the hospital for a couple of nights observation, as the Cat Scan had
shown a lesion on my lungs. They had to be wary in case it was cancer!! I was a
freaking mess, by this time. Home from hospital though, cry enough and they’ll let
you go!! They started me on a needle called Clexane, a Warfarin type drug, but couldn't actually give me warfarin itself in case I needed a biopsy, and of
course I would probably bleed out. So for about 6 weeks I was on needles given by
nurses at home 2 times a day, a great service we are blessed with. I couldn't sleep
in my bed, I was frightened to moved off the lounge, I love my daughter with
all my heart, but didn't want her cuddles, I had just lost the plot!!
Anyway,
now I can cut it short, the lesion came down in size with every fortnightly cat
scan, so they were confident it was only a clot, not the dreaded “C” word. However my doc, told me he would continue to pray for me, man that totally
freaked me out. I couldn't at the time see it as a nice gesture to me. It meant
I had to be dying.
Eventually
after 6 months I am off the warfarin, however I still have to have another cat
scan, that I am putting off until I go back to the hemo on Nov 12, so I will arrange
it then. I am being weaned off steroids, I think this is my 3rd time. Of course, then I crash and go back on them. Thanks to all you out
there, I am aware of different meds and treatments. Short term I have had no trouble with steroids, except extra sweating,
and not being able to see 3 feet in front of me. I was told by my Hemo that
steroids cause a thin watery lining over your pupils and basically seeing is
really hard, and it is. I do know from previous experience it will go away though.
I'm certainly going to inquire about the other drugs and treatments though, I think
steroids is just the easy option. He must dread me coming, with my list of
questions, that makes me sound really clever and knowledgeable. Of course they are
just stolen from all of you, but it keeps him on his toes. I do share care
with my doctor though, because mine is fairly standard !! I’m hoping this time will
be THE time, that it works, and ITP just disappears, I really don’t want it
anymore.
One
thing that I do know for absolute certainty, that without my ITP GROUP, that I
accidentally found, I would be nowhere. Further, I have gained so much knowledge,
love in abundance, and friends that will last forever. I'd love to name
you, but you know who you are!!! My hope
is to start something like this in Australia. Without my group, I wouldn't have had the confidence or support I need to be even able to think that. I don’t have a rash, I don’t bruise, I just
don’t have platelets, so I guess really it doesn't or shouldn't effect my life the way I let it. I don’t all the
time, just sometimes like now!!
Somewhere in between this, we have moved state
for my husbands job, I know absolutely no one in our new State, but it’s kinda
cool. I don’t have to meet someone and say, "Hi I’m Ros, and I have ITP." I have
3 children and one has gone back to our old state, because he is at the end of
schooling and the curriculum is just too different between states. He is happy
and living with my parent’s. I try to tell myself its just like boarding
school, but just thinking about him not being here makes me cry, I need him,
lol. My hubby has been fab, taking me to my appointments etc, but truthfully I think he
may be sick of hearing about it. I think
maybe I am suffering a little from PTSD, maybe, but I will cruise through it,(reading what I've just written, I guess I'm entitled though). Well that is
my plan, but I'm not silly. I will get help if I need it. Like I mentioned
earlier though, I really would give my right teeth, to have a hug and cuddle with
Greta right now. xxx
Ros, here's a big hug from me and all the other ITPers reading your story. Thanks for sharing!!
